Is it go bad for a women to get drunk

[sambucasarah]

Hi,

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks, everything seemed to be going really well, he introduced me to his friends which apparetnley he never does, then the other night we went out drinking with his friend and yes i got drunk had a bit of a dance in the pubs, did a couple of flips down the road like you do and he's been avoiding me since.

Is it really so wrong to have gotten drunk with his friends, they were all drinking to and having a laugh was i wrong to join in???? I am having trouble getting my head around this one, do men want girlfriends that do not drink????

[milyn]

I have been drunk before while attending a party with my man at a friend's b'day. Though he said that being drunk made me less attractive and my class out the window! I know I embarrassed him a bit because I acted like school girl getting pissed for the first time..
So I think drinking just enough to be happy and enjoy everyones company is better than drinking till you get drunk and being the laughing stock of the town, it will make your man admire you more and gain respect from his friends!

[mia06]

while i beleive its perfectly fine to have a few drinks here and there most people can be completely obnoxious with a few too many. take it from a bar tender in a busy pub / night club. it brings out a side of a person that is not fun to be with. you lose any class you may have had and yes, potentially embarassed this poor guy in front of his friends. so, like milyn, id suggest having a few till you get to that nice warm feeling. knowing when enough is enough is the key.

[Brooke]

Speak to him about it...
I don't think you drinking will have made him ignore you, just because you had a few drinks.

Enjoy life, it's too short- get out there and have a dance =)