What is Love

How can I know if I'm really in love?

A.
I can only answer your question in a general way as you offer no personal details.

The best way to tell if you are really in love is to use the test of time. In the few months of passion, feelings are distorted and it's very hard to tell fantasy from reality. You might feel something akin to love but it might not last.

So, at least for the first 6 months or so, enjoy the magic without making any promises or banking on permanence.

Time will tell if your feelings are real. The other valuable tool is your own intuition, not your heart or your mind for their information can be faulty. Trust your inner wisdom and let it guide you. Get to know the object of your affection slowly and fully, trusting in the future.




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